
I’m currently seeing a man named Matt. He’s kind, thoughtful, and treats me with respect. The only thing that gives me pause is that he already has a child. According to him, he’s never been married. He told me the child was the result of a one-night stand — something that happened once, without any real relationship behind it. He said it was only a few moments of pleasure, but it changed his life completely because it resulted in a child who’s now two years old.
When I asked if there was ever a possibility that he would marry the child’s mother, he said no. His exact words were, “My family wouldn’t have it.” He explained that they never had any kind of emotional connection, and that his family wouldn’t support him marrying her simply because of a pregnancy. Now, he says what he really wants is to settle down with someone he truly loves — someone he can share his life with and build a future with.
Matt comes across as a genuinely good man. He’s calm, responsible, and seems serious about commitment. Still, I can’t help but feel a bit uneasy about the whole situation because of the child. When we first started talking, I was also chatting with another man named Jones. In fact, Jones was in my life before Matt came along, but we had never met in person. Our relationship existed mostly through pictures, phone calls, and video chats.
Jones was always eager for us to meet. He often said things like, “When will you invite me over to see where you live? Or you could come over to my place if you prefer.” I wanted to meet him too, but I didn’t feel comfortable making……Read Full Story Here.………………….