The Nigerian Televangelist and General Overseer of Omega Fire International Ministry (OFM), Apostle Johnson Suleman has advised single men not to neglect their mother and family during this festive period, and gives money to a lady they are not married to.
The clergyman said relationship in the 21st century has turned to a business transaction, especially on the part of the lady who depend on men for their livelihood. “A young man meet a lady and the next thing she said is, what will you give me? Is relationship a business transaction? If a lady ask you what you will give her, you too ask her what she will give you or what has she given you. Don’t neglect your mother and gives money to a lady you’re not married to. I’m advising you so that you won’t spend your Christmas in pain. Your mother is in the village, your siblings have not eaten, your parent are stranded yet you’re gathering Christmas money to give to a lady you’re not married to. Can I give you an advice? If anyone is putting you under pressure this December, turn off your phone and put it on in January, if you can’t handle pressure. Only turn it on if you want to talk to people that are relevant. Don’t give money to any lady this Christmas, take care of your family” Apostle Suleman
He also advised single ladies not to depend on any man for livelihood, rather they should look to God for business ideas and opportunities. “Let me say this to you as a young ladies. If it is a man that you’re looking up to for livelihood, you are limiting God to bless you. When you look up to God, he will give you business ideas. You can be a female and employ and feed men, if you have a business idea. Have traveled round the world and have seen young ladies, so blessed and rich that they employed men. So, how long will you live on handout from men? Start thinking of ideas and looking for business opportunities,” Apostle Suleman said.