Reverend Funke Adejumo, the wife of Bishop Felix Adejumo who is the Founder and Senior Pastor of Agape Christian Ministries spoke to the women in her church. She advised them on how to keep their marriage and show love to their husbands.
She revealed that you must constantly make your husband happy, give him joy and stop noticing every mistake, stop nagging every time there is a quarrel. When your marriage was one year you would quarrel for one week he won’t talk, now that your marriage is ten years it’s still the same when will you grow up? She then condemned those who keep malice because if the rapture comes, that’s not right. Let him be happy, make him happy. When last did you tickle your husband? When last did you put a fish in your mouth and then you just tiptoed from the back and then put it in his mouth? When last did you do that?
She said that she sometimes moves towards her husband and tickles him, it is just to make him laugh, just to make him happy. When last did you pillow your head on your husband’s chest while he’s watching football, when last? You stay in the kitchen for 2 hours, what are you cooking? You can’t even come around. She said that that’s why as a woman you must improve on yourself, you must know a little about everything. As a woman no man wants an old bride around him, you must keep improving on yourself even if you’re a great grandmother you are his wife.
She told them that it is their responsibility to make their man happy, make him laugh, stop dwelling on all his mistakes, comfort the little boy on his inside just make him happy. Study his body language. If you’re happy you can’t hide it. Marry your friend. Is not every time you have sex, it goes down after some time. If your life is based on sex you’ve lost it. So there must be other things that will keep the marriage going. As the man ages his manhood also ages too.
According to her, she always tells couples that when they’re newly married, they shouldn’t let anyone interfere because they need to bond. it will tell in little years of your marriage, sex is like the water that mixes the cement and sand in a building so you must have it anywhere in your house the man mustn’t initiate it. “It’s a sign of immaturity to say that until my husband says, I don’t want to appear cheap,” she said. Make your husband merry, dictate the mood of your marriage. As a woman it’s your power, God has given it to you and it’s a secret code. It is important to make the man merry at all times.
Finally, she said that scientists have now discovered that one of the greatest causes of death in women is cancer caused by unhappiness. She then advised them to enjoy their life. “When I turned 52 years i made up my mind to dress with my future in mind, to be happy in spite of anything, let God be pleased no matter who is offended,” she said.