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I Threw My Wife Out Of The House But My Friend Picked Her Up And Did This to Her

I Threw My Wife Out Of The House But My Friend Picked Her Up And Did This to Her

i want to share with you something that happened to me and am looking for a way to implement your advice to a great effect in my life. I have not tasted life and friendship after what i have gone through, and i don’t trust anyone more. I’ve shared my life with a woman for eight years.

She had two marvelous boys for me which looks very identical. It is unfortunately difficult to have a stability between us, because we always quarrel together. I often start beating her after quarrels and finally throw her out of our house. When i pushed her out of the house, she took shelter with my best friend who’s popularly known as Philippe.

Philippe was the one who came around and finally reconciled us to solve the conflicts between me and my wife. So my wife finds refuge every time in his place and then came home after the problem was solved. She took shelter with my friend once more, after a second fight between me and her, and after giving my wife a hand again, but this time around she’s gone forever.

She became Phillip’s new wife because my friend Phillip had already divorced his former wife. She made it very clear to me that she’s no longer interested in me and expressed her interest in my friend Phillip. My friend Phillip also told me he’s sorry. After he picked up my wife he sent his wife packing straight away.

I would like to make it clear that i even fought with my friend over it. But my wife has not changed her way of thinking. Guide to Psychiatry and Counseling lifeexper by TaboolaSponsored Links Philippe has engaged my wife this minute that am talking to you, and my wife is now living in his house and she claims she’s gone for good.

That’s what happened to me, my dear readers. With life I’m discouraged. But I don’t know how I want to do everything I can to get my wife back. What do you think i can do to get back my wife? please share me your valuable advice i am eagerly waiting.

 

59 Comments

  1. You can’t get her back because you are beating her is not good to beat a woman especially your wife
    Nothing you can do you don’t love her that is why you are beating her

    1. It serves u right. I taught u are the man, why do you have to get her back since u used her as a punching bag, pray ur likes will learn from your mistakes.

  2. Forget about your wife, you shameless man.what did you expect to happen? You don’t love your wife and who love her takeover. Sorryeeeeeee.it can pain!!!.

  3. You even still have the guts to say you want her back. She should run far from you. You can’t eat your cake and have it back. When you go through the pain of marrying again, maybe you will cherish her.

  4. See yourself now,when you turn your.wife to punching bag,you want.her to continue to receive the constant.beatings from.your useless hand.You do not deserve a woman in your life,be living alone.and be beating your bed and.chair.

    1. Mehn…that’s not an advice.
      Com’on make una for moment be for this guy shoe. He’s pained and we can only little piece of advice that can motivate him. Mind you my brother, no one is above mistakes How do we over these mistakes? Corrections. Corrections from experienced ones or from his own (the alleged) experience. Abeg, make we sometimes take certain matters very crucial e go help!

    2. Mehn…that’s not an advice.
      Com’on make una for moment be for this guy shoe. He’s pained and we can only share our little piece of advice that can motivate him. Mind you my brother, no one is above mistakes How do we over these mistakes? Corrections. Corrections from experienced ones or from his own (the alleged) experience. Abeg, make we sometimes take Mehn…that’s not an advice.
      Com’on make una for moment be for this guy shoe. He’s pained and we can only little piece of advice that can motivate him. Mind you my brother, no one is above mistakes How do we over these mistakes? Corrections. Corrections from experienced ones or from his own (the alleged) experience. Abeg, make we sometimes take certain matters very crucial e go help! matters very crucial e go help!

    3. The woman should forgive and go to back to her man’s house than deciding to marry a divorcee because her man threw her bags away due uncontrolled anger of which the best place for she to go would have been her parents’ or the man’s (husband) parents’ house not the best friend of her man (husband) except they have been eyeing themselves before this last incident. Well, man, I feel for you. What I can advice is for you to give her time. I believe it may work if you turn to a new leaf!

    4. The woman should forgive and go to back to her man’s house than deciding to marry a divorcee because her man threw her bags away due to an uncontrolled anger of which the best place for she (wife) to go would have been her parents’ or the man’s (husband) parents’ house not the best friend of her man (husband) except they have been eyeing themselves before this last incident. Well, man, I feel for you. What I can advice is for you to give her time. I believe it may work if you turn to a new leaf!

  5. This life is full of up and downs. You are going to cry forever if you continue thinking that you can still win her again. Relaxe and find means of raising your children. Being single is not a crime.

  6. U said u HV kid’s with her that’s already family u don’t realize earlier.but l believe aperson who has ever been beaten by snake next time is careful,if u win her back u will value her,use elders plus u to satisfy , guarantee her , peace for ever with yr kids there missing there mum

  7. Since he has taken charge of your wife then go and take over his wife too but this time lean from your mistake cherish his wife and Love her like never before see what will transformer to them

  8. Beating her and throwing her out showed you’re no longer interested in her, please allow her peace with the person that cares for her.

  9. My brother, very sorry for this incident, but, do you know what?, your wife satisfy with what your friend is doing for her which has experience from you before,so please my dear, friend is seriously sleeping her,nd you can’t get her back to you.leave the matter to God nd forge ahead,nd for the Lord to do new thing in your life.you lost the battle.sorry.

  10. Forget about your wife, go for your friend’s ex wife instead. Your marriage to your friend’s ex wife will shock both of them.
    It will become a win -win exchange.

  11. You dont deserve to have ever again because you are not wordy of husband
    How can be beating her all the time?
    Do you want to kill her before she run from your hkuse

  12. You don’t need to beat the woman.
    Nevertheless, your wife and friend are betrayers, no matter what happens, they don’t have moral justification for what they are doing.
    Just moved on with your life and forget both of them. Run, they may kill you.

  13. Why do you want her back? You attitude towards her shows that you are not matured yet to marry. Did you marry her to be used as a punching bag. May be your friend is a better husband than you. Try first of all to grow up, before thinking of reconciling with her. Get matured!

  14. You still want her back so that u can kill her? You must be stupid. I fully support the decision of ur former wife.
    Beating ur wife? You must be a beast.

  15. According to what u were doing thats what u deserved you couldn’t have done that to your wife.trust and respect is key in marriage.

  16. The only thing that can erase the little remaining love in a woman’s heart is fights.Awoman can perseverance do much but fights….count your self a single guy….you are free to mingle…

  17. According to the bible, the only reason you can divorce your wife or husband is when you find them commiting adultery, so if the man who divorced his wife and married the friend’s wife divorced his wife for another reason exept for adultery, he will also divorce her the way he divorced his wife, so plz that woman should reconcile with her husband, otherwise they are commiting adultery with the husband’s friend.

  18. Himm, Its unfortunate. Ur best is useless.
    He has been admiring your wife.
    She has been keeping the woman for himself. Sleeping with him.
    Don’t take the law into ur hands,
    Report the matter to the police.
    Get their family and it’s involve.
    They are shameless people.
    U too was wrong for constantly
    beating ur wife.
    U may forget about her because u can never forgive her after sleeping with ur friend.
    How will you reconcile that.
    U might end up killing her.
    Go for another woman but stop beating women.
    From Mr Matthew

  19. Your wife and friend are tricking you, they want to see if you will change. So behave yourself and be a mature man, because your wife will give you another last chance. What am trying to say is that your wife and friend are not together, they are only testing you to see how you will react.So go and ask for your wife to forgive you, she is ready to forgive and then repent and take her back

  20. Philip deserve place in your wife heart b/c he is the only man that can please her how can a woman marry a man who is not mature like u??????!!!!

  21. You cannot correct a woman by beating her,remember she is your wife not your slave.Your wife and your best friend may be having an affair,but you don’t know.carry out a DND test on ur children to know if they are urs or your best friend children.You can’t have ur wife back again,do the needful and take care of ur children.The mistake has been done,be careful.

  22. Forget about your wife. The better man got her now. Dreaming of getting her back is tantamount to crying over a spilt milk. You need my advice? Search for Mr. Philip’s wife and marry her. I think both of you deserve each other.

  23. My friend forget the woman go and marry another one ok just like your friend did with your own wife you don’t deserve the woman at all

  24. Hey mehn,,,, you are now a single daddy,ready to mingle u can do it with non other than your friend’s ex wife but only after putting yourself together.Call yourself for a meeting then ensure you don’t be a previous beast on her,take good care of her and she’ll do so to your kids,be a good changed man ,cherish her like you never did not thought you would before and life is gonna be good and sweet be ready to change

  25. Forget about that thing u called marriage between u two. It’s for u guys best interest that u finally separated because u were not bonded by love. As for the woman, she’s a disappointment to marriage for her heart has always be with her husband’s friend. Because even real girlfriend don’t move on like this how much more a wife with kids. Move on with ur life man.

  26. True talk my brother, let’s try & be human. First of all i want u to know dat u’er d architect of yr own problem. My advice for you is dat u shld take a wow neva to beat yr wife, d mother of yr lovely children again in yr life. it’s inhuman to beat a woman repeatedly like dat.even an animal will not do dat. It can affect yr children’s emotions You’ll make dem hate you. What you’ll do is to visit her every day in dat yr Friend’s house, apologize to her frm d dept of yr hrt, remind her of all d good times you’ve shared 2geda, don’t relent until she 4gives u. Also try to settle yr friend & his wife too & make yr wife understand dat yr Friend’s wife can come back anytime. If you’re lucky den don’t u eva in yr life beat yr wife again. Good luck!!!

  27. It’s quite unwise to beat and throw a wife out there. We throw what we don’t need and it’s done intentionally . You have thrown her out because you don’t need her. So compose yourself and turn a new live. The anger of man does not do the righteousness of God. Learn your lesson the hard way.

  28. Bible says that woman is a weaker vessel no man is allowed to beat a woman the way your mother gave birth to you sir is the same way her mother gave birth to her men please cherish woman for once [email protected]

  29. Your friend Phillips have been settling matters between you and your wife not even once and you still have to gods to beat her and throw her out of your house, now your friend Phillip have taken over,,are you not a fullish man by asking dat you want to get your wife back,, is too late oo, well only the advice i can give to is for you to go marry the woman your friend Phillip sent packing,, i believe dat will be better for you,, dat is one one

  30. As your friend dropped his wife to Mary yours,please kindly go and Mary his own wife too. Exchange is allowed. But Beating a woman talk more of the one you called your wife is totally bad. Don’t try that on any woman again,instead send her back home.

  31. I’m in support with the woman for escaping from danger but not to settle with the husband’s friend it’s not a good habit

  32. You have lost your opportunity, for you can’t eat your cake and still have it. Beating your wife is foolish act. However try using the kids to beg her they might be lucky.

  33. My advice to u guy, is to reject n say NO to domestic violence. She is ur wife n as such, view her as a weaker vessel n nt ur punching bag??? Jus pray to God to 4gv u , quit d habit of always beating her n throwing her things outside. If nt u ll loose her finally. Show her some love n pet her always. Work on ur stupid anger towards ur wife in order for ur prayers nt to b hindered.

  34. You are not strong enough to gather your pieces and move on. Don’t cry like that my wife, my wife try to settle down what new things have you put in place to change your attitude and to attract her back to you?.Are trying to start new strategies , go for a date?
    Come-on be a man have an alternative idea.

  35. Oboyeee! You can never eat cake and have it back. There is an adage that ‘the room you are in and can’t sleep, you better remain out side. One man”s meat is another man”s poison . It takes the grace of God for that woman to come back to your house. Pray very well. There is nothing impossible for God.

  36. Please I don’t think your wife will come back to you so please find another woman because she will be affread that you will treat her same way.That’s how human beings are when they get good things they don’t realize that that thing is good until is being lost.

  37. No woman wants to stay with a disrespectful husband. Someone who sacrifices herself to cook, care for you, bear for you children the mom of your children!!Buy adrum and start beating it.since your friend has on several occasions intervened in counselling you,he knows your weak arears and is going to capitalize on that to have the best out of your gone wife. Just style up carry the mantle to bring up your children otherwise no woman is an angel even the chicken knows it’s chicks even if they were hatched on the same day they will always separate among themselves.

  38. This is cooked up story!
    In the first place,why entrust a friend who has failed to solve his own problems to solve yours?
    Second you mentioned your friend divorced but later you say he sent his wife packing when your wife joined him.You think leaders don’t analyse?

  39. I don’t understand why a person will be beating the wife each time there’s a disagreement to the extent of sending her away not minding what danger she might get into.Go and marry the divorced wife of your friend.Please Oga go and get another punching bag,maybe this time that one will kill you.l don’t support people requesting the woman to come back because he shall kill her this time knowing that the woman is wiser.You never appreciated what you have until it’s gone.Let this sound as a learning to other men.
    My only worry goes to those innocent children that have to pay the price.

  40. Wives are not punching bags go join a gym and keep healthy and you should know that your friend and your wife have been seeing each other for a long time and waiting join up.So don’t get another woman yet until you go for rehab about anger management to stop 🛑 beating your life partner ever again, it’s a demonic affair.What if you are beaten instead of your wife.Wife beating ni ushamba

  41. Mister, no woman like to be beaten all the time the way you are doing, leave her alone with the person who does not beat women. You are a bad man.

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