Am a Doctor, i Earn N500,000 Monthly, Marry me and Collect Half of My Salary, Lady Says
Here in Nigeria, Some people believe that is very important and vital for a female to be a Career woman, a resourceful woman among men. As it is said that if a woman can be able to achieve a lot of things in the field of her career, then she can be measurable with some men, and it will not be so difficult for her to find a man who she will settle down with. But sometimes the reverse seems to be the case in some scenario.
As the saying goes that “what a man can do, a woman can do even better”, has changed the mindset and the ideology of some ladies in Nigeria. And they forget that what worked out for a Man can not work out for a woman. A Man choose be single or a Bachelor and still Marry at the age he wants. But a woman can not choose to think in that direction, why because the beauty of a woman fades away at some stage of her lives.
But in the other Hands, I want to use this medium and privileged to tell and advise ladies, that they should never compare themselves to men. What worked for a man might not work out for you as a Lady. Men have their own parole and lifestyle, the same applicable to women. They parole is totally different from the men.
Initially I thought being a career and resourceful woman here in Nigeria will earn a lot ground and achievement, but I have come to realize that no matter what you achieve, no matter your level of Education, no matter how rich and influential you are, if you don’t have a man that you will attach your name to, you are then incomplete as a Nigerian woman.
My name is Dr Esther and am 38 years old. I have gotten a lot of recognition by some Medical firm because of my level of educational achievement, but I have a big problem. Am already 38 years this year, but am still a spinster. I still have not find a man who will love and Marry me as his wife,. Upon my level of achievement, I still feel incomplete.
Money is not my problem because I earn about N500k I have few bills to settle every month, so virtually I have nothing to do with money, money in actual sense is not my problem. My problem is that I don’t have any man who I can call mine. No husband that I will spend the rest of my life with. Am almost getting to the stage where I won’t be able to conceive and bear a Child, and yet am still single.
Although I have had series of relationship in the past. O have dated Men who is older than me and boys who I am older than, because I wanted to give love a chance in my life. But it stands that all this men that came my way where after one thing, my money and not genuine love. And this is the problem I have in relationship, I love quickly and genuinely.
I seriously need a man who can feel in the gap of love in my life. I have decided to give love a chance again in my life. And hopefully, the next person that will come into my life will come to stay, and not to come and eat and clean mouth. And he can be rest assured that he is getting half of my riches and achievement, if only he can agree to marry me and make make me a happy woman. Money is not the problem. We will have enough to train our children.
Anyone who is interested can indicate in the comment box below, and I will choose to contact the one person that my spirit wants or accept, that’s what I intend to do.
What is your thoughts on this, do you think she is desperate to find herself a husband, irrespective of the fact that she is 38 years?
If You are interested please Comments and Identitfy yourself, stating why you think, you are the best man for her.