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My Pastor Proposes to me just 6 months after my Husband’s Death, Should I Marry him-60 Yr old widow Seek Advises

My Pastor Proposes to me just 6 months after my Husband’s Death, Should I Marry him-60 Yr old widow Seek Advises

In this message to relationship expert Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah anchor of iRelationship make or mar this American returnee is confused over the proposal from her pastor.

She claims early this year she relocated back to Nigeria with her husband from America.

The husband and a terminal ailment and he decided to spend his last days in Nigeria after living all these years in America.

Hello Osigwe how are you doing? Please publish so I can have good advice from your fans.

My name is Jessica and I am 60 years of age, I just buried my husband 6 months ago and thinking of going back to America only for my pastor of 40 years to propose to me.

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When we relocated back to Nigeria my husband told me he needed to be more spiritual before his death. He wanted to attend a spirit-filled church. That was how we started a fast-growing church in our neighbourhood.

My husband is a billionaire and died leaving more billions behind. The founder of the church took a special interest in our membership and very soon became a family friend.

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My husband showered him with so many gifts and bought a 2015 Mercedes for him. He knew he was going to die so never cared the way he spends his money.

And on the other hand the founder of the church Rev Chuks is a very nice dude. He comes to the house every day and prays for my husband.

Now, least I forget me and my husband have two sons who are working in the United States Army.

My husband was planning to build a new auditorium for Rev Chuks when he died.

Now with loneliness on my part, I am considering relocating back to the States when Rev Chuks suddenly proposed to marry me.

Rev Chuks is cute and full of energy. He has promised to cherish me and adore me and to be frank, I am seeing reasons why I can marry him. But herein lies some issues.

Which is one am 60 he is 40, secondly my husband showered him with so much love why want to marry his wife?

Someone told me he might want to use me in completing his auditorium so I should stay off him.

But truth be told my husband has been paralyzed for the past ten years and I have not seen any other man since then.

Now money is not my issue as I can even afford to complete the church without a string attached and still go back to America.

Should I accept his proposal? I am bothered if he truly loves me or not.

Thanks, Jessica.

Jessica needs to be careful as our pastors of these days can not be entirely trusted. In as much as I would not want to stir unnecessary controversy on pastors, I would reserve my comment.

So let’s hear you out.

2 COMMENTS

  1. Jessica needs to be careful, take the money away and see if he last…..6 months is to early for him to propose marriage, you still nursing the loss of you husband. Honestly be very careful, flattery,filled with kindness may set a trap for your whole entire life…..

  2. Jessica the Pastor is only after your money. HE IS NOT EVEN IN LOVE WITH YOU. Apart from completing his Auditorium, he will love to own houses in his village, some Nigerian Cities and even overseas. He will also love to own a Private Jet and live a luxurious life.

    Secondly the age gap between both of you is too much. HE WILL NEVER BE PROUD OF YOU OR SHOW YOU TO HIS FRIENDS.

    Thirdly his Parents, Brithers and Sisters will never accept you because of the age gap.

    So it is better for you to return to the US and continue with your quiet life there.

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